Over the years it seems the question I’m most asked is: "I'd like to have a lifestyle house party but I have no idea how to do it..."

Perhaps you’re new to the scene, have never hosted a party, don’t really know your local lifestyle community all that well…or any manner of complication that prevents you from taking the horns by the bull and making it happen.

Go to www.sexuality.org and clck on the swingers part of the web site. They are full of suggestions.

First rule: No means No! Best rule there ever was.
Let the women plan the guest list, events and perameters.
Don't worry, they are much better at this than you would imagine. (The first swing encounter I ever attended was due to my {then} wife and her girlfriend.) Both us guys were totally blown away!
Talk about erotic? No, us guys are just horny. Women are erotic!