To females :
How does a man know if a woman is receptive to an exibitionist or is getting ready to dial 911? I am talking women, not kids. Also, need advise from women on how to do it .
Thanks

Could you explain or put this in some perspective? Is this something that you wish to do at the Mall or to a neighbor? Is this directed toward a siingle individual or is this something that you'd like to pursue as a fettish?

BTW Looked at your profile.. I would think that working your wood would be one of the things that you would want her to take an active role in.

I like a woman who enjoys teasing a little. Who likes to flash the truck drivers. Who likes to { accidently?} show a little when we go out.
I also like to show a little. A man has to be careful, so I was wondering how to know if a woman is receptive or ready to call 911. The last thing I want to do is make any one uncomfortable. Also how can I tell if I am being teased or not.
I am a single male looking for Friends who share the same interests. And hopfully a s/f to share them with.

I think that there is a one word answer to your question.....ASK! Example: She's showing a lot of leg and she's rubbing her foot on your leg... You say: "are you trying to tell me something? She flashes you with her breasts accidentally(maybe on purpose)you say: "That was very nice, I'd like to see more where that came from" She's rubbing your inner thigh with her hand but making sure she is safely away for touching something that you'd like to show her. How about: "If you really like you may touch that and if you like what you feel, you can look later or if you're up for it I'll show you right here." Communication is like Location in real estate...It's EVERYTHING.

In reply to xplorr94248:
Thanks. That helps. Any advise is greatly appreciated. Do you guys enjoy that also? I would assume that there are many who just dont have the nerve to do what they would enjoy. I have decided to enjoy the rest of my life. As long as there is no pain involved . I am a nudist also, but some times have trouble keeping it down. They will kick you out if you rise. ome times I think that women tease you just to get you in trouble.

Hopefully you've gotten your mail by now. We really don't get into exhibitionism as you describe. B does, however, vents her exhibitionism when we go to lifestyle clubs and she wears next to nothing...In fact she wears exactly nothing from time to time. But I can guarantee that if you try direct communications you can find out what and why they, the women, do what they do. The old nothing ventured, nothing gained applies here.

In reply to bustuc:

In reply to bustuc:
Thnks for the advice. B looks great in nothing. I saw the photos in your profile. You are a lucky man. I hope to find someone like Her some day. As I have said, I am new. I would love to know more about you guys. The profile told a lot, But you are the first real people I have come across. The others ar just trying to sell something. I do hope we can keep in touch. As I am trying to get into the lifestyle { its hard for a single male} , it's nice to know some one who is in it. Any questions you have will be answered. Just ask. I would love to hear more of your experiences.
I guess i'll close for now.
Sincerely,
John
..P.S. Tell B that she looks great

In reply to bustuc:
Thnks for the advice. B looks great in nothing. I saw the photos in your profile. You are a lucky man. I hope to find someone like Her some day. As I have said, I am new. I would love to know more about you guys. The profile told a lot, But you are the first real people I have come across. The others ar just trying to sell something. I do hope we can keep in touch. As I am trying to get into the lifestyle { its hard for a single male} , it's nice to know some one who is in it. Any questions you have will be answered. Just ask. I would love to hear more of your experiences.
I guess i'll close for now.
Sincerely,
John
..P.S. Tell B that she looks great

hi bustuc:
i am new to the website, and i have not had my first "swinging" experience yet. i have, however, been an exhibitionist most of my life. i have been viewed by no less than 150 women over the years. i am 50 yr old, a professional, so i have to be very careful. i have never been in trouble with the law. now we all have our own ideas about things, but showing yourself to someone who you are getting romantic with, or someone who has already indicated they want to see something to me is not true exhibitionism. i am not a "flasher" in the classic sense of the word, and i do not go around in trench coats with strap-on trouser legs or anything like that. i like to think i am more of a gentleman exhibitionist. i don't want to hurt or frighten anyone, so i go to great effort to "set up" the situation. and, when you are working by yourself, the percentage of succesful efforts is fairly low. that is why i have only succeeded 150 times in about 40 yr or trying. as some of the other folks said, sometimes (very few) i have asked. the basis for most of my exhibitions is setting myself up to get "caught" if you know what i am trying to say, or being seen when you don't "know" you are being seen. the problem with the latter method is that you lose some of the thrill if you cannot look at the person looking at you. at least that is a big part of the thrill for me. well, i could write all night giving you techniques and telling stories, but you see what i mean. if there is someting more specific you want to know, let me know. i will try to answer. my biggest fantasy or more correctly desire is to find another person, preferable female, but male would be ok, to "work" with me. i think there would be a greater success rate for two or more working together. enjoy

In reply to benfranklin:
I think about it alot, setting myself up to get caught i mean. I used to live with a friend who had a basement with a bathroom and a laundry room connected with a 2 ft by 1 ft opening in the wall that devided them, to pass laundry and stuff between. Anyway, i was taking a shower and had just finished. well i heard my friends girl friend in the laundry room so i quickly put the towel over my head to pretend to dry my hair, well i could peek through and i caught her peeking at me (only for a sec) while i stood there nude and with a semi-erection. i started massaging it, this time with my side facing her, but i was still able to see her out of the corner of my eye. well i went slowly at first, then little by little i started to pick up the speed, until i was going all out and pow, i blew a good one and she stood there pretending to put clothes in the drier and peeking. I mean how many clothes can you put in the drier for like 5 to 6 minutes.

My gosh, you people are interesting...<g>

There isn't as fine line as one might think between 'flashing' and a show of skin.

I am not a lady but I would suggest you try to learn from ladies and their use of guile in how they dress and what they show. Forget getting much advice from ladies as they 'wonder' why they get attention while wearing mico-mini's and high heels.

Shooting from the fully clothed hip, I think 'less' is best until a closer relationship is established even if it's just a remote friendship.

The problem with exhibitionism as you present it is it's heavy-handed premeditation; it's more about you than the lady. It will take an understanding audience to overcome that, or one with a sense of humour.

I would strongly urge you to be careful as many women do have cell phones and, blonde or not ('sorry, honey), usually have 911 on speed dial.

There is also one possibility you might consider at some point if this 'need' begins to control your everyday life; counseling. You may find some answers there you won't find here.

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I too am an exhibitionist and do so mainly in the comfort of my own yard. I have a few pair of shorts that if sitting just the right way will let the "boys hang free". I have been seen by most of my neighbors and even the mailman on occasion. I feel quite comfortable in doing this as it is on private property. I have never had any complaints (I did, however) ask my neighbor if she minded or if it made her uncomfortable if I sunbathed nude in the backyard if none of the kids were home. She told me "no problem" and we have not had any problems. She has seen me fully nude on several occasions now and is begining to get more daring herself. Not quite nude yet but working up to it.

My best advice is to share your thoughts and feelings with the people that you are going to show (warn them perhaps) to see where their head is at and then go from there.