...........and I have had any luck with meeting people that live in my area ! Can any one help me out ?

I didn't wait for people to come to me... I met someone within the first week. You are a good-looking guy and seem pretty straight forward. I am sure you will have no problem finding people interested in meeting you. I met someone from another county; 60 miles away isn't that far to go. You could probably go to a lot of places, if not states, from where you are. How far are 'you' willing to go to make a connection?

In reply to jillisqirts:
A guy is telling his friends he knows of this great bar where if you walk in they give you all the free drinks you want and in addition you get laid, not just once but all night long.
So the other guys inicredulously ask him if he knows from personal experience.
"Hell no, but almost. It happened to me' sister and I have no reason to believe she lied to me" comes the reply.

In reply to LStarr:

That's okay. I know where I've been and where life is taking me. I sorry that you don't have a more encouraging word.
Good luck on you connecting...I think you need some.

misunderstood my post.
My point was that women live a totaly different experience than men in these matters. What may be easy for you, may well be nigh impossible for a male.
As for help in connecting, thanks I hold my own. However given your kind interest I'd love to hear more advice over lunch or dinner next time I am out in Southern California. I believe that I can speak for both myself and lawrencev in saying that we appeciate your taking the time and interest to reply. Happy New Year

In reply to LStarr:
My apologies....

In reply to jillisqirts:
It would be fun to get to know the person behind the apology. Perhaps in another time, another chapter.
Best regards.

In reply to jillisqirts:
It will always be easier for a female to have an easier time connecting than their male counterparts. I suppose that this is due to the large number of horny guys out there that are seeking the attention of very few horny women (or at least, those who will admit to being horny).

ps. Jilli, I have read your profile, where were you when I was looking to get hitched?? Wow! if only we weren't 4,000 miles apart...

...I'm still disgusted with 90% of the members here, that haven't _Visited_ in 12..16..24..38 MONTHS...!!!
Wish I colud contact 'Rock.....'.....
Can we Talk...??

~ J