Hi All,

Would love to hear some great stories and good ideas about "ice breaking" with respect to warming up to swinging with people you haven't played with before......

We aren't starved for ideas but I thought it might be fun to kick around.

Often it can be rather awkward. Especially with people that aren't a great match. I have stories of scenes that didn't work, scenes that probably shouldn't have happened and some that were surprizingly fun.

Sometimes it is as easy as being there, sometimes that isn't enough.

I recall a guy that we laughingly refer to as Wierd Wally. He showed up at an on-premise club with a gal that seemed a lot nicer and less obnoxious than he. His habit was to kind of inhale slowly over his tongue in a reverse hiss and complete it with a long slowly exhaled "aaaaah..". Funny as hell because he was doing it fully dressed while standing next to us with no immediate reason we could determine other than the characteristic good looks of my partner.

Later, we were screwing on the floor and in comes WW and his date. Right next to us, he plops down on his back and pulls his girlfriend on top of him and then, in the middle of his now famous sound effect, he casually - "Accidentally" - placed his hand on my gals breast. She picked it up like a limp, dead stinky fish and plopped it back on him...

Later he was asked to leave but his date stayed..... anyway, not a great experience but memorable. We often use his sound effect to punctuate luscivious commentary. Hee Hee...

Love to hear some others, good or bad.

Particularly the successful good seductions - its good for the newbies...

Hi ,
This should be an interesting forum cause most swinging experences are memorable. There was atime when we were at a nudist swinger resort when tis lady got on the massage table and in the course of the evening Rhonda got pretty aroused while massaging her , we then went down to one of the lower rooms where Rhonda started making love to her . Everything went great until the girl started to get off and she broke into a histeracle laugh which really broke the moment. After composeing herself Rhonda and I both began to lick ,eat ,and srew. Again at tthe peak of excitment she started again . Some others that had been watching decided they would help out . Well after one other girl and three men it was the same result each time . This really screwed up the evening for us but apparently this made her as happy as could be . It's her way of getting off . I guess Whatever floats your boat . It wasn't a total lose we ended up in the exam room were Rhonda was totally satisfied.

Have a great day everyday

I like the story about the laugher... some people express themselves in entertaining ways....

We have had some very nice, sophisticated evenings that were fun as well. I recall one couple we had over for a first meeting with dinner. We had met at an on-premise club and exchange numbers.

He was attractive and generously endowed (and thus had the full attention of my partner) and she was petite and very cute. After they arrived, she retreated to the bathroom for a moment and appeared in a sexy little French Maid outfit and proceeded to serve dinner and wine to all of us.

She was very cute and the outfit was enticing and revealing, and she played it to the hilt.

Of couse the service was less than adequate and I had to turn her over my knee and give her a couple of exploratory swats on her bare butt in between servings - hee hee.

Meanwhile, my partner was in full pursuit of Mr. Endowed - we'll call him Dick.

Apparently they weren't entirely clear on whether or not they were into full swap when they arrived. They were definitely into it by the time they had a chance to talk it over.

It was fun and we had several more nice encounters before they moved out of the country - They were a European couple.

I prefer the more sophisticate aproach with a long warm up... a chance to explore and enjoy the subtleties that can come with really good sex.

We were sharing a hotel room in Atlantic City with another couple we'd known for several years. We were only sharing the room to save some on the room cost, but did it ever pay benefits! lol

Our friend's husband had too much to drink and fell asleep, leaving the three of us on our own. It started with me giving our friend a back rub and with her undressing after a while so I could use lotion. In not too long the back rub became a front rub <g>, my wife's mouth found its way to our friend's breast, my mouth found its way to her lovely mound, and we ended up with my friend going down on my wife while I took her from behind. It still turns us on to think about it.

Since then we've had a few more experiences, and we're both eager to make this exciting world a part of our lives!