It’s been about a year since I posted on here last. At the time, my wife and I talked about exploring swinging but she was completely opposed to it.

We’ll, one year (of me leaving the topic alone) later and we end up going to our first couples only dance. We had a blast! We danced with each other. We danced with others. We danced with each other and sandwiched others in. It was the hottest foreplay, for the monogamous sex we had afterwards, I have experienced.

Anyway, here’s my questions: When I posted a year ago, someone recommended Thy Neighbor's Wife by Gay Talese as a good book to read. Any other recommendations to help an apprehensive wife feel comfortable with swinging? I asked about video last time but it seemed that it was pretty limited.

While we’re at it, although it’s appeared in many other posts, anyone else want to share their beginning experiences, overcoming of inhibitions, and words of wisdom?