I have discovered my 10 years in this life, as open as we all are there is still a fear of the unknown. With the general dangers of meeting people online we are inviting strangers into our private life. For all of you posters who are having a difficult time getting response you are not alone and I would suggest you not take it personally.

My suggestion is go to the local parties and clubs. That is where you will meet who you want. Once you meet people face to face the fear goes away. I am not saying these sites don't work I am just saying they take time.

This lifestyle can be a lot of fun if you are patient, honest, and true to yourself and your partner. Remember this lifestyle is more than just sex; it is a community of people who love people and sharing the things in life they love the most.

My partner and I are new to this site but not this life. We also have not received any responses but we do not expect to for some time (at least until we get some pictures up). We enjoy each other first and inviting others is secondary.

So I say good luck to you posters who are frustrated and remember this is suppose to be fun.