I NEED SOME ADVICE. WE ARE NEW TO THIS SCENE, AND I AM BI,I THINK MY MAN IS DEFINITELY CURIOUS ABOUT HIMSELF AND ANOTHER MAN, HE WILL SUCK MY TOYS AND LET ME PUT THEM IN HIS POSTERIOR, AND I CAN TELL THAT HE'S REALLY TURNED ON, BUT WHEN I ASK HIM ABOUT IT, HE DENIES IT. I REALLY HAVE A GUT FEELING THAT IT'S TRUE, BUT HOW DO I GET IT OUT OF HIM? I THINK THAT MAYBE HE THINKS I WON'T FIND HIM MANLY ANYMORE. SUGGESTIONS?

If you were to sit down and preface the primary question with something like....... Have you seen hopw many men are comming out as bi adn bi curious on SwingDater? I glad that the double standard is finally going away and guys are not afraid to say so.. Takes a heck of a man, what with all the homophobia in the world, to let people know that they are curoious and bi. And finally the ladies are accepting that. Heck, most of the women are Bi and up until now they were as bad as the guys about the guys that were bi or curious.. You know we've been doing some pretty freaky stuff...lately... What with you receiving anal with the toys and going down on the toys... I want you to know that there is nothing wrong if you decided you want to try things like that...If it is somethign that you want to try.... hey, go for it...

Or something like that.. Notice that the question was not popped adn shouldn't be at that point... He may at that point decide to open up or it may just lie there until another time... Let him take his time to decide what he wants to do...

AS WITH ALL MEN WE DONT LIKE TO THINK OF OURSELVES AS GAY DUE TO THE SOCIAL STIGMA THAT GOES ALONG WITH IT, U NEED TO ASSURE HIM THAT ITS OK AND YOU WILL NOT THINK LESS OF HIM FOR LIKING IT. YOU MIGHT TRY TELLING HIM THAT YOU WOULD LIKE TO SEE HIM AND ANOTHER MAN PLAY TOGETHER AND MAKE IT YOUR IDEA INSTEAD OF HIS SO AS TO EASE HIS APPREHENSION. I AM BI AND I LOVE SEX WITH MEN AS WELL AS WOMEN WHERE AS I WOULDNT WANT TO GIVE UP EITHER OF THEM. WELL GOOD LUCK AND HOPE IT TURNS OUT WELL FOR YOU BOTH

I have same type of feelings as you! I love to play with his anus. I could make a night out of just touching him and tasting him. A man can be stimulated by us no matter what we do to them, but bottom line we can get away with it because we are US!? Thay love us and trust us enough to allow us to do and be comfortable doing whatever turns US on in the heat of a moment. I want to take it further and he seems to be happy with what just the two of us are doing.... I still want more spice, more sex, more love, and oral action with a man a woman or both! You never know unless you ask baby! Good and happy love making to you girlfriend! mwaz everywhere!

Thank You for your inquiry but at this time I am not ready for a long distance relationship.

In reply to diamonddemo:
Thank you for your inquiry but at this time I am not interested in a long distance relationship

In reply to diamonddemo:
Thank you for your interest but at this time I am not looking for a long distance relationship

In reply to babydollgf:
Thank you for yourinterest but at this time I am not looking for a long distance relationship

It all depends for me its how the other guy looks. Im straight but if there is another woman there and the man is to my feel then I'll consider it. Thats what he might be waiting for (the perfect man).

I think that u should have a guy come over and test him.

Please help me out here... If your man is Bi Curious, and that can take many different channels, has he become less of a man??? What's the difference if a woman is Bi or a man is Bi? It's a double standard that sucks. He may actually be more of a man because he has the guts to admit something that is, and stupidly so, looked upon as somethig wrong with a man and praised in a woman. All the sneaking around to find out could be done with in a short conversation. If he knew that you were not mad and did not think he is less of a man for such thoughts...he might just tell you the truth... Communications is lacking...possibly negative thoughts and prejudices comming to bare.... Don't guess ask... talk about it...
Ray

Just recently my wife and I had a thrresome with my best friend. After it was over my wife was showering and my friend and I decided to try a little extra fun. We jacked off on the couch while watching a porno and then I let him do me doggie style. I never considered myself to be gay and I still don't but I guess I can consider myself "bi" and be proud of it because I enjoyed it. So tell your man its ok to explore and have private fun!