Yes, taking the time to understand our ancient roots helped to give us a lot of confidence in our direction as a sexual couple. It helped us to understand each other and our natural instincts. We also learned how we as humans mimic the Animal Kingdom in our mating rituals and how we display ourselves to others...

When you’re surrounded by thousands of other lifestyle personal profiles, how can you make sure the people you want to meet actually notice you? For starters you can check your local matches, and write them an email. But the most important part in making a connection is creating a profile that will capture their interest as well. Make it exciting. Make it fun. Make it stand out...

Like many of you, we have a great relationship, children, family and friends. It's a good life, a great life — and we did not want to put any of it at risk when entering into the "lifestyle." A satisfying long-term relationship is a delicate balance that constantly changes...

The following is what makes the most sense to us. We call it Balanced Sexuality for more reasons than one. And yeah, that's "B.S." for short! But it really is pretty far from "B.S." It's the best combination of our desire for a long-term commitment as a man woman couple while also enjoying and balancing out our natural sexual instincts as we have discovered them to be....

All of you here at Swingdater have obviously chosen a different "path" sexually, despite what you were taught and influenced to think about your sexuality. You are to be commended for having the courage and spirit to step in a direction away from the views of the masses. Not an easy choice at all. However, choosing a different path or course of direction does not mean we automatically know our way along that path...

Over the years it seems the question I’m most asked is: "I'd like to have a lifestyle house party but I have no idea how to do it..." Perhaps you’re new to the scene, have never hosted a party, don’t really know your local lifestyle community all that well…or any manner of complication that prevents you from taking the horns by the bull and making it happen....

I've said it before, but it bears repeating: swinging isn't for everyone. It takes certain amount of character for people to be able to pull it off successfully. There are pitfalls and dangers to be sure, but as a noble mind once put forth, "We do not choose to swing because it is easy, we choose to swing because it is awesome...

Since the dawn of time, mankind has yearned to swing. But it has been a long road. First they had to invent sex. It took many generations and countless failed attempts to get it right, but on the whole it is now generally considered to have been well worth the effort. Then in the very early years of the last millennium, came the second most important development on the path to sexually open relationships: the monogamous marriage...

Before we attempt to answer the question of why a couple might choose to swing, it should first be noted that - simply - monogamy is unnatural. It's true. Considering all the forms of life in nature, monogamous behavior should be properly be regarded as extremely deviant...